self-care/,self’ker/noun: the practice of taking action to preserve or improve one’s own health

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If Annie had asked me four months ago to participate in a post round-up on self-care, my answer would have been “I don’t do that”.

Because if the definition of self-care is “the practice of taking action to preserve or improve one’s own health”, then I definitely did not qualify (my morning iced coffee, nightly bourbon and occasional “spa” pedicure notwithstanding).

But THREE months ago I began a journey that was nothing BUT self-care – putting my health front and center, along with my entire environment – from the air quality of my home, to the detergent that washes (and lingers on) our sheets, towels and clothing, to the cleaning products that cover every surface we touch.

And I’ve chatted about that – at length – over the past few weeks (read here and here).

So now let’s have some fun, with two easy, delicious smelling DIY’s that are the sweet, indulgent side of self-care:

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If you’ve been hanging out here for a while you know that I LOVE my body scrubs. Like, LOVE LOVE. I’d already done lavender, brown sugar and rose, and was in the mood for something bright and fresh during this exceptionally gray and grim winter.


Orange – like all citrus oils, has a sweet, invigorating aroma, and I just knew that it would combine beautifully with brown sugar. Here’s how to make it!

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Orange Brown Sugar Scrub

1 cup brown sugar
1/4 cup refined coconut oil
20 – 25 drops Orange essential oil (start with 20 drops; you can always add more!)

Thoroughly combine all ingredients in a small bowl, then transfer to an airtight jar (these make GREAT gifts in small mason jars!).

Next up? DIY perfume (stay with me here)!

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Back story: I’ve worn the same fragrance exclusively – every day – for over 30 years. And even after watching the movie “Stink” – and ridding my home of everything with “fragrance” in it – I didn’t think to look at……….MY FRAGRANCE. And then I did.

Here’s part of the description from the product website:

“Formulated with aromatic essential oils of citrus fruit, Patchouli, Bitter Orange, Rosemary, and White Thyme, this invigorating fragrance promotes a feeling of freshness, vitality, and well-being. Natural plant extracts of Aloe Vera and Ginseng leave skin feeling soft, hydrated, and toned.”

What could be more pure and natural, right? Now here’s the ingredient list:

Alcohol, Water, Fragrance, Glycerin, Propylene Glycol, Butylene Glycol, Aloe Barbadensis Leaf Juice, Acanthopanax Senticosus Root Extract, Ginger Root Extract, Panax Gingseng Root Extract, Harpagopytum Procombens Root Extract, Plantago Ovata Seed Extract, Equisetum Arvense Extract, Citric Acid, Potassium Sorbate, Sodium Benzoate, Limonene, Linalool, Hexyl CIinnamal, Citral, Coumarin, Eugenol, Alpha-Isomethyl Ionone, Geraniol

See the “Fragrance”? Red flag. This term is a catchall for 10,000 DIFFERENT INGREDIENTS. And since trade-secret laws protect perfume and cosmetic makers from divulging the specific formulas for their scents, there’s no way to know exactly which of those 10,000 ingredients you’re dabbing onto your neck or wrist. But pretty much all scented cosmetics contain a group of petroleum-based chemicals called phthalates (read more about the dangers of  phtalates here).

So my beloved fragrance – my “natural”, “plant-based” fragrance that I’ve been DOUSING MYSELF in for decades – likely contained truly horrible ingredients.

And now I make my own perfume. Here’s what’s in it:

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Essential oils.
Carrier oil.

I’ve made a few different blends so far; here’s what I’m loving currently!

“Stay Golden”
from Nesting with Grace

10 drops Orange essential oil
5 drops Northern Lights Black Spruce essential oil
2 drops Geranium essential oil
2 drops Vetiver essential oil
Carrier oil (jojoba, sweet almond and fractionated coconut are all good choices)

Place essential oils in a 10 ml roller bottle; top with your choice of carrier oil.


And while I’ve shared the impact these changes have had on our sleep, health and overall wellness, I’ve not emphasized nearly enough the psychological benefits I’ve experienced. Aroma is truly powerful, and taking it in through all of the products we now use has had benefits that I couldn’t have imagined.

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Self-care doesn’t get any better than that!

If I’ve piqued your interest feel free to e-mail me at to chat further. And be sure to check out my fellow bloggers’ posts for even more lovely self-care ideas!


Patricia van Essche

Cottage and Vine

Classic Casual Home

Rough Luxe Lifestyle

Most Lovely Things

Any suggestions made on this blog are very specific to Young Living essential oils and should not be used with oils from another source. Statements made on this website about Young Living Essential Oils have not been evaluated by the FDA. These products and information are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease. Anyone suffering from disease or injury should consult with a physician. If you are currently on medication, please do not stop.


  1. classic casual home on February 20, 2020 at 9:41 am

    I love a sugar scrub, Sheri! Thanks for the recipe.

    • sherisilver on February 20, 2020 at 11:06 am

      It’s an easy one and smells so fresh!

  2. cindy on February 20, 2020 at 9:55 am


    Mary Ann made a great sugar scrub that I love! I am really curious your scents you have created. They sound wonderful!

    • sherisilver on February 20, 2020 at 11:06 am

      It’s been so much fun – I never thought I’d do ANYTHING like that and now I’m hooked! 🙂

  3. René on February 20, 2020 at 3:22 pm

    Yay for a great scrub! I’m going to try this! Thank you!

  4. LA CONTESSA on February 20, 2020 at 4:47 pm

    ALWAYS READ THE LABELS ON FOOD AND OTHER THINGS!IT ELIMINATES A LOT in MY LIFE as I am gluten free, diary and yeast free too.BACK TO BASICS as I call it!
    THANK YOU for the scrub recipe!

    • sherisilver on February 20, 2020 at 5:10 pm

      I wish I could eliminate dairy! I love my cheese! 🙂

  5. Annie Diamond on February 20, 2020 at 6:34 pm

    Sheri! Who would have thought that we would be making our own perfume a year ago? Sugar scrub, yes, but perfume, not so much. And then we watched “STINK” You can’t unknow what you know! I have every one of these oils and will be making the “Stay Golden” perfume tonight! I have some pretty decals that I’ll send you for your perfume!

    • sherisilver on February 20, 2020 at 8:04 pm

      I honestly don’t even know who I am anymore! Thank you for the decals! xo

  6. Jame on February 22, 2020 at 2:11 am

    The scrub and fragrance ‘recipes’ sound awesome! I have some essential oils so it should be a snap. I do have a fragrance that not only do I love, but my daughters bought it, too. It’s called Pure Vanilla by Lavanila Laboratories. It’s absolutely pure, healthful, and it smells heavenly, a little earthy, gentle, and feminine. I can’t better describe it. I also have Pure Lavender. I found it through Birchbox but you can Google it if you like. Great post and I love your blog!

    Jane x

    • sherisilver on February 22, 2020 at 8:44 am

      Thank you Jane (that’s my daughter’s middle name)!! If you search “lavender” on the blog you’ll see a bunch of recipes, since you’re a fan like me! 🙂

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